it's not the clothes that maketh the mat. it's the mind. it's not Givenchy that made it big, it's Marc Jacobs. and so forth. the illusion is always attractive but the structure that made it so, is lost. so many times, I am guilty of initial impressions preceeding truth. but i can't help it, can i? you come to me...all decked out in what is not you, saying things not on your mind and looking at not where your eyes are set. how can you blame me for not liking you? or liking what is not you and then finding out the Real McCoy? haha...i give up..hands up...strip please and let me see? i am really LOUSY when it comes to passing judgement. many a times i've overestimated, underrated or disregarded the truth or the false. i quit. from now on, i shall approach people with a Cloze passage structured mind so help me fill in the blanks.slowly.